What Is Escalation
WHAT IS ESCALATION
- Escalate: To increase in intensity, magnitude, etc.
- Throwing your heavy sexual interest at a woman will both scare her away and turn her off.
- Seduction is about patience, anticipation, teasing and slowly finding her arousal threshold.
- The seduction of your woman flows through small predictable steps… each step being slightly more intimate than the last.
- Important: If she blocks any of the steps, just relax and take two steps back. Once you are both comfortable, begin escalating again.
- Try not to skip steps, but it is normal to move through them quickly when she is not giving you any resistance.
- Typically don’t expect her to escalate. This is all on us guys. And that helps us remain the leaders.
- When she is attracted to you, she is EXPECTING you to escalate, but won’t tell you that.
- Deep down, all women want to be seduced and admired and desired... ESPECIALLY by the men they date.
- We may fear her rejection or resistance, which prevents us from escalating. This is a common mistake. Her resistance is necessary for healthy escalation. Expect it and accept it and enjoy it.
- It is not domineering to escalate, it is dominant.
- Sexual desire is healthy. Embrace yours and hers.