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Welcome To The Course
Welcome - About Robby (5:12)
About The Course Title (2:35)
Attraction Intro (1:11)
What Is Attraction? (4:33)
Attraction Is About Motion (4:01)
Tug Of War (Push and Pull) (7:20)
Building Tension (6:58)
Tension Do's And Don'ts (7:33)
Your Attention Is Your Power (5:05)
Ignore Your Genetics (6:13)
Ignore Her Mood (6:48)
Ignore Rejection (5:53)
Score Confidence (5:46)
Confidence Is An Emergent (8:36)
Score An Identity (6:02)
Score Boundaries (9:47)
Boundaries Continued (8:18)
Score Resistance (8:42)
Leading Intro (0:49)
What Is Leading? (2:15)
What Is Leading? Continued (5:09)
Examples Of Leading (3:47)
Ignore Your Insecurities (10:15)
Ignore Your Friends And Family (5:09)
Ignore Your Mistakes (7:00)
Ignore Your Fears (7:56)
Score Your Own Approval (11:08)
Stop Judging (2:33)
About Status (5:59)
5 Ways To Display High Status (15:35)
Rapport Intro (1:02)
What Is Rapport? (5:32)
When Is The Right Time To Build Rapport? (2:42)
How Do We Build Rapport? (6:14)
Connect Through Storytelling (4:31)
Understanding Her Resistance (6:09)
Removing Her Resistance (9:46)
Ignore Her Jealousy And Learn From It (3:48)
Discuss Boundaries (1:42)
Ignore Her Tests (4:36)
How To Pass Her Tests (1:32)
Score Indicators Of Interest (10:40)
Score Banter (4:53)
Score Fun: Role-Playing (2:42)
Score Congruence (3:25)
Score Your Purpose (2:07)
Escalation Intro (1:00)
What Is Escalation (5:28)
Typical Escalation Steps - Part 1 (7:37)
Typical Escalation Steps - Part 2 (10:31)
Ignore Your Urge To Go Fast (1:23)
Ignore Your Desire To Be Direct (6:33)
Ignore your Impulses (2:01)
Score Intimacy (1:42)
Score Vulnerability (4:22)
Score Your Manliness (2:14)
Score Your Loving Vibe (1:51)
Score Sexual Intimacy (9:37)
Final Thoughts (7:18)
Student Questions - ASK ROBBY
Question: She's walked away, what should I do? (5:53)
Question: How Do I Get Over This Heart Break? (9:26)
Understanding Her Resistance
UNDERSTANDING HER RESISTANCE
Always practice empathy.
Empathy will help resolve inner conflicts like “taking things personally” because we’ll see her point of view instead of only our own.
Empathy helps us recognize the danger women constantly face in their lives, and why they need such harsh defense mechanisms against men.
It is our job to recognize her fears and accept her resistance as necessary.
Women also face many social judgments around dating and sex, and we would be wise to respect that.
Never judge her and never let her see you judge other women.
When we first approach attractive women, we guys need to expect and accept that:
She is going to be instantly suspicious of us.
She is not going to instantly want to engage us… because we’re strangers.
She will give us brief responses.
She will use her friends to block you or avoid you.
She will see you the instant you enter a room, and she’ll gauge your personality and value based on what she sees you doing, how you’re acting, who you’re interacting with.
She will resist every step of your seduction, from getting her name and her number, to getting her into your bed.
Your success all comes down to this: it is not what she says or does, it is how you react to what she says or does.
Never act rejected or hurt or upset by her resistance. It is your job to take those risks and to accept her friction. It is not bad. It is cute.
Seduction takes finesse, patience, and understanding.