Just like the word DARKNESS describes a lack of light, maybe CONFIDENCE describes a lack of insecurities or distorted mental thoughts.
Positive Mindset: We are innately born confident and it is our life experiences that soil our belief systems. These distorted beliefs and painful life experiences act like dirt on our “mirrors”, and it is our responsibility to be constantly cleaning our mirrors. We need to be metaphorically clearing away negative voices in our heads in order to hear our natural state of confidence. A quiet mind is a happy mind.
Our job isn’t to build confidence, because we already have it. Instead our goal is to remove the negative and disempowering voices that distract and hinder. These distracting voices are our insecurities which destroy our natural state of confidence and peace.
Getting good with women comes easy when we’re happy and confident.