Building Tension



  • Think of resistance as a key to personal power and to building or maintaining tension.
  • Resistance is a part of how you display your boundaries. It helps express your Value, and it is how you can keep women at a playful distance… thereby increasing the tension.
  • We don’t value what we can get easily. It is your job to be playfully challenging, and her job is to do the same.
  • About giving compliments: They work only when you are not trying to get something, when you are MOST sincere. And they help build attraction only when combined with flirting and teasing (resistance).